Posted: April 7, 2015 9:59am

I have never been away with my son on our own, I had irish twins ( just 16 months between my two children) ! So the first years were a blur of nappies and sleepless nights.

There are some great advantages to having them so close but one of the downfalls is that I never seem to have peace and quiet to really focus on one and with Archie now seven, he is quickly turning into a little man and I just felt we needed some time on our own.

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How he has grown at Two !

 

With all the activities, school, my work and a sibling there is not much room for ‘real’ conversations.

So with a week in difference in their school holidays, I decided to head away early, yes I felt guilty for leaving Luella but it just felt like the right time.

It has been such a special week, I feel we have forged a different kind of relationship, one not bound up with me telling him off or just going through the motions of  the daily grind of the school run.

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On the school run

 

I feel that as we have no timetable, we are more relaxed and the conversation just flows. I no longer feel like the baddie, confiscating the iPad and herding my son from school to swimming to homework.

He has opened up, I am sure you all have it you ask you kids what have they done at school and you get the monosyllabic , cannot remember or where is my snack retort!!

I have also discovered how similar we are, as I am not distracted, we both love to exercise , he has been cruising the promonanade on his scooter with me in tow. It has been great to just chill and relax together.

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He also love to go out and we have not taken the iPad, once, we have talked and talked and we have loved every minute. I was worried back in London that I had been replaced by Mindcraft but I have been as guilty as him as I use the iPad when it suits me and kids just don’t, get it when we chop and change the rules.

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I think he also sees me in a different light, not as grumpy, engrossed in a book instead of head down at my computer.

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This was a really balance, he got to scoot at break neck speed along the promanade, bungie jump and try zip wiring and I got to do some shopping and reading. It was all so natural a give and take

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We even got to see the Easter Procession in Marbella, it moved both of us.

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So even if it is a day trip , do it get away and make it a priority, I know it is not easy but I guarantee you will remind you why you wanted kids all those years ago.

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Wishing you all a lovely Easter break!

 


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